For those just joining us
If it seems I'm going a bit overboard when it comes to visiting and worrying about Grandpa, please note that for all intents and purposes I could be saying "Dad". I spent most of my childhood, when not in school, staying with Grandma and Grandpa Pilny, and I had/have always been especially close to them even before my parents divorced.
My biological father has been a non-entity in Pamela's and my lives for nigh on 15 years by his own choice (at my Grandpa Shad's funeral he went so far as to have two other girls in the receiving line but not my sister, and said they were his daughters). Grandpa has filled that void, up to and including walking down the aisle with me when I married Andy.
My biological father has been a non-entity in Pamela's and my lives for nigh on 15 years by his own choice (at my Grandpa Shad's funeral he went so far as to have two other girls in the receiving line but not my sister, and said they were his daughters). Grandpa has filled that void, up to and including walking down the aisle with me when I married Andy.

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That was a good day, and a happy memory. And you have nothing to explain or apologize for, willowisp.
*hug*